yoyu - abundance of heart
being a human being comes with being a social creature.
being a good human being requires a kind of openness to the world and the willingness to trust uncertain things beyond your own control.
being good, means accepting the condition that love might leave you shattered by circumstances you cannot prevent. and others too.
getting lost in love does not mean giving up on virtues. instead, it demands the courage to be vulnerable.
this includes the possibility that our actions and non-actions, well intended or not, may leave others hurt.
love can hurt. it will. sometimes.
even yoyu, unconditional abundance of heart can hurt - we do not control where it goes, who receives, what echoes or ripples back to our soul, what resonates between souls, if and when yoyu turns into other forms of love. and when it hurts.
there is no other way. always follow the arrows.